Controversy and criticism have followed Madonna every step of the way on the path to stardom, more often enhancing her career than hindering it. That change is what concerns many children's charities, who wonder how Banda will cope with leaving a Malawi orphanage for a world of luxury homes, private jets and press intrusion. "What we're saying is, rather than taking this child overseas and caring for him in a totally alien environment, why not support the father to take care of his own son in his own community?
" said Philippa Lei of the World Vision group. Banda's mother died shortly after giving birth, but his father is alive and has told reporters that he only intended to leave David in the orphanage for a short time. He did, however, welcome Madonna's decision to adopt his son.
The debate about the adoption has inevitably moved to the Internet, where similar concerns are being aired. "To take him away from his father is cruel and selfish, an act designed to provide Madonna with favourable publicity," wrote one contributor responding to an opinion piece in Britain's Observer newspaper that was strongly in favour of Madonna. "That child will grow up to resent her for taking him away from his natural parent.
" Not everyone is against the adoption. Madonna's supporters point out that she is donating considerable time and money to Malawi and that, on balance, the boy stands to gain. "Angelina Jolie, Meg Ryan and Mia Farrow have done it too, drawing criticism of rich celebrities, western arrogance, racism and fashionably cute babies.
But surely what counts most is the happiness of one child?" Britain's Guardian newspaper wrote in an editorial. Motives questioned:Madonna's motives have been questioned, as commentators wonder whether the 48-year-old is imitating other "A"-list stars.
"I think in her mind she thinks she's doing the right thing and putting her money where her mouth is," said Michael Musto, a celebrity columnist for the Village Voice in New York. "But I think the cynicism is coming from the fact that this looks like a copycat of Angelina's actions and Madonna seems to view an African orphan as the latest hot accessory." Another raw nerve exposed by the adoption story has been what outsiders view as the special treatment given to Madonna because of her wealth, fame and power.
Malawian law bans adoptions by non-residents, but officials are granting an exemption to Madonna. "The rich shouldn't get preferential treatment. I am fine with the idea of the adoption but I want people to go through the system," said Emmie Chanika, director of the Civil Liberties Committee.
